| DREAMS Does God Still Use Them Today |
| The bible has many accounts throughout time that He used dreams as a form of communication to His people. A few examples are Dan... |
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| Driving To Your Goals |
| Every time you get in your car to go anywhere, you are working on achieving a goal. There is somewhere you want to be, so you ta... |
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| Discover The 10 Golden Rules On How To Conquer Your Fear |
| We all want happiness and peace of mind. In the search for these blessings, millions of people take "happy pills" which they hop... |
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| Electromagnetism, the Universe, and You |
| An electric current produces a magnetic field. This is the principle of the electric motor - varying electric currents moving al... |
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| Either Tame The Bull Or You'll Eat The Crow |
| A man can stand a lot… as long as he can stand himself. succes... |
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| Eight Steps to Taking Control of Every Situation in Your Life |
| Like it or not, we are all gladiators. We go to sleep and wake up in a social arena from which there is no escape. Challenge upo... |
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| Eight Simple Anger Management Tips |
| "The other night I ate at a real family restaurant. Every table had an argument going."
One of the biggest obstacles to pers... |
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| Ego, Arrogance, and Self-Esteem |
| The pursuit of pleasure and the avoidance of pain are not our only motivators. Whether you realize it or not, our underlying pur... |
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| Education Leads To A Healthier And Happier Life |
| Do you feel you lead a healthy and happy life? If you answered yes, chances are you have received some sort of college or post s... |
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| Earn Your C's as A Speaker |
| Franklin Delano Roosevelt had some good advice for the public speaker when he said, be sincere, be brief, be seated. Be simple, ... |
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| Each Moment Is To Be Treasured |
| Let us grasp and treasure each precious moment of our lives. The previous moment is gone and the next is on its way. In truth, a... |
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| Creating A Winning Mindset by Clinical Hypnotherapist Steve G. Jones |
| Do you know anyone who always wins? Sure you know that person, everything just works out for them. They go into business and the... |
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| Emancipation |
| Direct Answers - Column for the week of September 8, 2003
When is it time to divorce a family member?
I've been helping ... |
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| over The 90/10 Secret: It Will Change Your Life. |
| The 90/10 secret is incredible! Very few know and apply this secret. The result? Millions of people are suffering undeserved str... |
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| Do Your Goals Match Your Passions? |
| Making sure our goals are properly aligned with our passions only makes sense. If you have the wish to move up the corporate lad... |
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| Dreams of Reality |
| Every times we discuss about the goals, objectives, success |
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| Drawing On Creativity: How To Trick Your Brain |
| Can you draw?
Your answer to that question reveals a surprising amount about your brain and the way you integrate your right... |
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| Do You Really Want To Be Successful In Life? |
| How many times have people asked you what you really want out of life – and how many times has your reply been: “I want to be su... |
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| Do You Really Value What You Wish For |
| I am sitting in a shopping mall, waiting for my wife to finish her Christmas shopping. Next to me is a rather pathetic-looking f... |
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| Do You Need An Answer About Life ? |
| I was originally brought up Catholic, at the insistence of my parents. I quickly lost interest after going through my confirmati... |
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| Do You Make Less Money Than Your Taller Peers? |
| A recent study at the University of Florida found that over the span of their careers short people earn less money than their ta... |
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| Do You Have Excuse-itis When Looking for a Job? |
| How many times have you done or heard someon else say: "I don't have the time, I don't have the money, I don't have my family be... |
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| Do You Experience God? |
| Connor, a man in his late 40’s, has achieved everything he ever thought he needed to feel happy and secure. He owns a successful... |
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| Do You Suffer From The "Chef" Personality? |
| As a chef I have a unique perspective on anger.
In my time I have worked with the greatest in the finest kitchens of Europe.... |
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| Duplicity |
| Direct Answers - Column for the week of January 26, 2004
We've been married 20 years. In order to spice up our sex life we w... |
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| Doing Less in More Time |
| Over the years, the compelling challenge of time, priorities, and life balance has been a frequently mentioned concern of indivi... |
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| Down On Your Luck? Here's How You Get Over The Hump! |
| It's time to put a bad rumor to rest right now. Good things don't happen to you because you have "good luck." And, bad things do... |
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| Don't Ask Your Doctor |
| Perhaps I should ask my doctor if there is a drug to take to combat frustration from seeing so many drug ads. You know the ones ... |
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| Don't Let The Door Hit You Where The Good Lord Split You! |
| I knew precisely what I wanted. I felt that success was on... |
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| Don't Mistake Activity For Achievement |
| I remember watching an NBA Basketball Game on t.v one night. The Miami Heat were playing the New Orleans Hornets. Miami was all ... |
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| Don't Seek Success; Seek Self-Actualization |
| "You make a living by what you get.
You make a life by what you give."
So said Winston Churchill. Cooperation and giving... |
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| Don8217t Let the Boogeyman Steal Your Dreams |
| The boogeyman lurking in the closet scares the bejesus out of little kids. “Big people” know the imaginary monster from their ch... |
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| Don’t Give Up! |
| Don’t let anyone kid you. The road to self improvement and... |
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| Do People Really Take Jobs for Money? |
| Money motives in American culture appear to be what drives a job seeker to accept a job. Why work if it is not for money?
Th... |
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| Doubting Your Way To Success!....Ridiculous.....Oh? |
| Ever had a problem with doubts? Ever felt that nagging feeling down in the pit of your stomach that says, "It ain't gonna happen... |
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| Dominant by Day, Submissive by Night |
| If you are like most men out there, you probably have no idea what makes those head-strong, powerful and intelligent career wome... |
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| Dream Lover |
| Direct Answers - Column for the week of September 1, 2003
I met my wife a dozen years ago and her best friend shortly therea... |
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| Don’t Let Motivation Cause You to Fail |
| Yesterday my teenage son Matt came home with a less than stellar report card. (Yes, even peak performance |
| Does Internet Dating Work? |
| What’s the Number One Question that Everyone Asks About CyberDating?
Everyone -- and that included YOU! -- wants to know: "D... |
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| Does Your School Teach You How to Achieve Financial Freedom? |
| Study hard, get good grades and you will have a bright future! I am pretty sure many of you have been brainwashed by your teache... |
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| Does size matter? |
| Bigger is better. Isn't that the American dream?
Why buy a road-hogging, critter-squishing, bumper-defying, wall-of-metal SU... |
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| Does It Really Matter |
| We are all involved in this game called life and we will have our challenges and successes. One thing that will have great beari... |
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| Discover The 8 Steps To A Mountain Moving Faith |
| “ If you have faith as a grain of musterd seed you can say to this mountain : move ! And it will move ! And nothing will be impo... |
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| Divine Authorship |
| What does the story of your life say about you? Does it speak of heroic journeys into new and exciting lands of achievement and ... |
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| Do The Hardest Thing First And The Rest Will Be Easy |
| Have you ever noticed that in life we almost always choose the easy road, the path of least resistance when it comes to challeng... |
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| Discover What You Really Want To Do |
| Are you doing what you really want to do or did you just fall or wander into the job you now have. As a friend of ours once said... |
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| Discover The Spark That Motivates You In Business and Life |
| Can There Be Any Other Business Like Your Own Business?
“Whatever you persistently allow to occupy your thoughts will magnif... |
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| Discover the Key to Self-confidence |
| "One important key to success is self-confidence. An impor... |
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| Curing the Blues - 14 "Feel-Good" Ways to Get Out of the Dumps |
| Everyone goes through that "in the blues" feeling once in awhile. The best cure is to be around people that you care about; fami... |
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| Discover Your Purpose In Life |
| Everyone has a life purpose; a unique and special something each of us is supposed to do in LIFE. A life purpose is not a specif... |
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| Depression and Procrastination: Twins In the Job Search |
| Let me examine these two mental states. My definition of procrastination is that a person delays and delays actions that are req... |
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| Discovering Opportunity in Times of Challenge |
| You may be facing a type of disappointment, frustration, loss, or general sadness. It is in these times you can immediately begi... |
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| D.I.S.C.I.P.L.I.N.E. |
| What does this word really mean anyway? According to Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary, 10th Edition, discipline, as a noun, is de... |
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| Discerning The Loving Heart |
| How often have you had the experience of connecting with someone – a friend or a potential partner – who turns out to be an unca... |
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| Digging To The Root Of Your Problem |
| Most people have some aspects of themselves that they would like to change. But how often do you dig deeply to find the root of ... |
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| Difficult Challenges? -- What If? |
| Sometimes life can seem like one long series of unsolvable problems. I know there have been times when I would much rather find ... |
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| Different New-Year's Resolution - Pass-It-Forward |
| Every 12 months, as the New-Year rolls around, we all brag about our New-Year's Resolutions. With inflated chests and with all t... |
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| "Did Your Personality Choose Your Career? |
| We almost all think we are masters of our own fate. While it is true that we all make our own choices there are many things that... |
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| Dial M for Mindfulness Using the Golden Arches |
| Looking for mindfulness? Who ya gonna call?
Try dialing M.
It's easy to be mindful. It's just hard to remember to be min... |
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| Developing an Opportunity Mindset |
| Starting a home based business is a fantastic way to earn additional income part time or full You can build a six figure or high... |
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| Detour |
| Direct Answers - Column for the week of March 3, 2003
I've been looking for so long to find someone to secretly talk to, to ... |
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| Do you know WHAT MAKES ME MAD?? It makes me SO MAD I just want to... |
| Do you know WHAT MAKES ME MAD?? It makes me SO MAD I just want to...
Sound familiar? If you want to manage anger, the only w... |
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| Designing A Life - We Each Get The Chance |
| As we pass through the Seven Gateways to Enchantment again and again and become a true Enchanted Self, we see that life is all a... |
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| Could You Be A Workaholic? |
| If you need to put on boots and grab a lap-top computer to relieve yourself at night, you might be a redneck workaholic.
It ... |
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| Dancing On Your Brain: The Cha-Cha Effect |
| My grandmother used to say that the secret to living a good life is maintaining a flexible spine and a flexible mind. Whether we... |
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| Darkness of Winter Encourages Insights |
| The darkness of Winter has descended.
For many the long stormy nights of Winter and the proverbial dark night of the soul ar... |
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| Demand Dignity in Public Speaking Training (c) |
| Mandy*, a bright, attractive professional woman, had a fear of speaking in front of groups. Recognizing that her feelings of vul... |
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| Demanding Miracles |
| Have you ever had an overwhelming problem or issue? Was there some circumstance in your life that seemed beyond your ability to ... |
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| Dating in the New Millenium |
| Over the past 20 years the face of dating has gone through some noticeable changes. Traditional methods of finding a date would ... |
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| Day Dream Believer |
| I am sure you, just like the rest of us, experienced all sorts of day dreams when you were younger. Who amongst us did not find ... |
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| Dealing With Negative People Made Easy |
| I was playing tennis today with one of my tennis buddies. We play once a week and we usually chat about work, professional tenni... |
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| Declutter for Sucess |
| Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in, forget them ... |
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| Deep Doghouse Communication for Angry Men |
| Many times when an angry or rageful man comes into the office to see me for the first visit, he is in a deep crisis. Such was th... |
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| Depression Mantra |
| Depression is the most prevalent of all the emotional disorders. This may vary from feelings of slight sadness to utter misery a... |
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| Daily Systems Keep You Organized |
| Ever wonder how they do it? How a short-order cook prepares tasty meals in a hectic, rush-rush environment, and does it all with... |
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| Curbing the Public Nuisance (Part 1) |
| He's been around since the dawn of humanity. His profession is even older than the world's oldest profession. He's been loathed ... |
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| Cure Your Burnout! |
| Do you ever get those Sunday night blues? Dreading the week ahead, feeling the daily grind just draining away all of your energy... |
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| Curbing the Public Nuisance (Part 2) |
| Yes, that pillar of society that has been with us since that slithery dude threw humanity for a curve in the Garden of Eden – th... |
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| Creating A Gratitude Journal |
| grate.ful adj. 1 a : appreciative of benefits received: syn. thankful
4.19.02 Today I am grateful for _______________ .
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| Cultural Differences—Making it Work Virtually |
| Working virtually adds a whole new dimension to the phrase “cultural differences”. It immediately becomes apparent how different... |
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| Could you use a “Stop Doing” list? |
| One of the tried and true organization and time-management tools is the trusty old “to do” list. I was trained to diligently put... |
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| Creativity and Broken Eggs |
| In 1420, the dignitaries of Florence held a competition.
They offered the enormous prize of 200 gold florins to the architec... |
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| Creative Problem-Solving: Following Your Stream of Consciousness |
| Having trouble finding a solution to a nagging problem? Try a well-known journaling technique called stream of consciousness--yo... |
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| Creating your Vision for your business, career, and Life |
| Many people go through their daily lives feeling overwhelmed. There are so many things to do and there never seems to be enough ... |
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| Creating the Best Year of Your Life |
| At the end of each year, and on their birthdays, many people take time to reflect and look ahead. If you're one of these people,... |
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| Determinants Of Success- Revisited, Again. |
| If you have been a long time subscriber to this newsletter you have read about the determinates of |
| Creating Sacred Space in Your Home Office or Garden |
| The environments we surround ourselves with contribute to our sense of well-being as well as to our creativity and productivity.... |
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| Creating Supportive Environments |
| I’m writing this on my laptop in a Cosi café in Dupont Circle in Washington, D.C. The reason I am here has nothing to do with me... |
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| Do You Make These Common Mistakes When Talking to People? |
| Many moons ago. Talking to people was something I avoided where possible.
At the time, I did not know I was unconsciously se... |
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| Discovering Your Passion and Purpose |
| “I can’t seem to discover why I’m on the planet.”
“What is my purpose here? I know there’s something I’m supposed to be doin... |
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| Creating an Effective Study Environment |
| If you are like me, you find it extremely difficult to study in the average house hold these days. There are just way too many d... |
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| Create a Network and Catapult Your Job Search |
| Networking is still known as a great job-search strategy, ye... |
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| Create a Blueprint for Your Success |
| Having a strong foundation enables you to build a thriving, profitable life and business. A simple method to create this foundat... |
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| Course Of Treatment |
| Direct Answers - Column for the week of August 23, 2004
My husband is 45. We are getting ready to celebrate our 25th wedding... |
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| Courage Is A Gift |
| “It is not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.”
-Epictetus, the 1st Century Greek Philosopher
Cou... |
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| Coping With Having a Small Penis |
| If I meet an angry man, somebody who is truly angry without a reason, I often wonder if the cause might be something as simple a... |
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| Coping with the Time Crunch |
| “There is never enough time, unless you're serving it.”
-Malcolm Forbes (1919 - 1990)
My son is 17 months old. (OK, all ... |
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| Could Your Thoughts Sabotage Your Happiness?Take this quiz and find out. |
| Women are conditioned to be people pleasers. Women are taught to be “nice” even if that’s means comprising their happiness, and ... |
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| Define Your Own Future ... Shatter The Crystal Ball! |
| When I decided to look into remote viewing, I had the impression that it had some bizarre metaphysical and psychic associations.... |
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| Daily Rituals as a Doorway to the Higher |
| If you have a longing to connect with something higher, whether it be your higher self or higher powers and beings, one of the s... |
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